by Tim Nafziger and Mark van Steenwyk
Both of us have spent time analyzing the way we are part of the dominant
culture in the United States. We know that we, as heterosexual, white men,
benefit from a system that is racist, sexist, and heterosexist and that we are
against oppression. However, we want to move beyond analysis and become allies
to people who are not part of the dominant culture. We have been studying
literature on the topic, including Anne Bishop’s Becoming an Ally, and have
noticed some interesting parallels between the practice of becoming an ally and
what Jesus is trying to do in the Sermon on the Mount.
Naming the ways we see oppression operating in a group setting is part of
becoming an ally. “Naming” is the practice of unveiling a truer narration
than the one that identifies only blatant bigotry and chauvinism as the
problem.
Naming means noticing when members of the dominant culture are the only ones
speaking in a mixed group and pointing it out. It means confessing those times
when we have dismissed people because of our unintentional prejudices. It means
our honoring the moments when members of an oppressed group name oppression
rather than out responding to this naming with defensiveness. It means making sure it isn't the women
in a group who have to call out a man for making a sexist remark, intentional
or not. It means breaking ranks with other members of the dominant culture. It
is risky.